My Stepmum is dieing she was told 5 mths ago she had pancreatic cancer &!was given 3 mths to live. I love her like she’s my mum. We are very close We live 200 miles apart. Iv visited every month.
We live 200 miles apart.
She said she wanted to give me something ( money wise) before her will. I of coursed said I don’t want anything ( although I could really do with it at the moment) I think she knew this that’s why she offered.
She said she would go & sort it out at the weekend but on the Thursday she had a bad fall in the bathroom. I was so concerned but she said she would be ok. This was all less than 2 weeks ago. Now her partner ( not my Dad) they divorced years ago but we always stayed very close.
2 days ago she stopped answering my texts & her partner said she’s too ill to talk to me & can’t go out to sort out what she wanted to do for me.
It’s obvious she’s her power of attorney so could do it himself for me. But fir some reason he’s saying they are living off his pension & all her money is in her will. Erm how could she sort out what she wanted to do for me at a weekend when solicitors are closed?
Now she’s saying I can’t come down & say goodbye to her. I really want to tell her I love her & all that she means to me & to hug her one last time. But her partner is saying no to me. What can /?should I do
I really feel I should go down & sit on the doorstep. Unless my Stepmum herself tells me she doesn’t want to see me. Please help x
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