It isn't that easy lemon , I did exchange some text with younger sister when she said she felt guilty. I asked why did they react as they did because I was upset and cross about that chat room so said they should all sold off from there. She replied - so you didn't say about me when told I would clean the house what is that nosey bitch going there for and when you were told x 'her daughter ' was in the group what's it's got to do with that bastard from Plymouth .
I was so shocked ,had a panic , I replied - Dear God no, you really believe that? Why didn't you all ask me , give me the chance to defend myself against x my nephew .
Then came a bigger shock and it has really affected me, she replied - x told his mother and she told x sister .
The sister who told the sister has Parkinson's and is a very bitter woman , but I don't know which of them told such a lie, my nephew or my sister. I cannot ask her because she is so ill , she has been a bit strange for quite a while, will not use a mobile phone, a computer, will not go out in town in her wheelchair is completely dependant in her husband, not one in the like him , not even her sons, he is husband no 2.
She is a very hard person , doesn't mix with people even before she became ill , always been difficult one out of the five of us, she hasn't spoken to our brother for eighteen years .
Oh hell, another epistle sorry but felt I should explain why I cannot take it further, not because I am being stubborn, they have poor health and I don't want to distress them