When a family member dies, no matter how distant the relationship, people understand that there will be grief and sorrow for the family. However, without the blood tie it can be difficult for people to understand the depth of grief we feel when a very close friend dies.
Last week we received a call about the death of a very dearly loved friend. This man was closer to us than many of our relatives and we are bereft, but saying that a friend has died somehow doesn't convey the sense of loss we feel. My husband has just left to travel to Norway where the funeral is being held, and along with sons and grandsons he was invited to be a pallbearer and to give a tribute at the funeral.
Of all the people we have told only one has offered condolences on our loss and I find I want to try to impress upon people how much this lovely man meant to us, so they will understand our grief. I'm sure others on GN must have experienced the loss of very close friends and I wonder if you've had similar responses?
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