I need to send a card to a friend and her son, who have lost their husband and father. I'm happy that I've sorted the personal message in the card but I'm not sure what to put on the envelope.
I would normally put to Jane, John and James Smith (not real names) if I was sending a card, but John is no longer with us. Looks so wrong just putting Jane and James Smith.
DH thinks I should but in sympathy on the actual envelope, but that seems rather public.
I'm probably over-thinking this but is there a best way of doing this?
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