DH died 12 weeks ago. We were married for 25yrs. He had a complicated life before I met him. He had a child when he was very young and the relationship ended quickly. Ex partner met someone who did not want him to have anything to do with the child and they moved away. He had sporadic contact over the years but never lasted. SD announced a few years ago that she wanted nothing to do with DH side of the family and broke contact with all other relatives. Moving forward when DH passed she was informed but made no contact until I received a letter saying how upset she was that she wasn’t included in the funeral. The letter also included some unpleasant things about me and DH. I understand she is grieving in her own way and she is entitled to her opinions. My DH did not behave well in the past but he was loving and devoted to me from the day I met him. I don’t know if I should write and explain that she was not included because as far as I was aware, she wanted nothing to do with him and when she didn’t contact the family, it just confirmed it. Not sure if I should respond or will it just open a can of worms. My head is all over the place. Any words of wisdom?
Good Morning Wednesday 24 April 2024