My aunt died in November. She was 87 and had been unwell for a long time. My uncle was her carer for many years, only in the last few months of her life accepting hospice help at home for her. He is 88 and they were married for 65 years. Myself & DH support him as much as we can as do his adult sons. The trouble is he has completely broken down. He is not sleeping or eating (is painfully thin) has no interest in doing anything. Won’t accept invitations to spend time with us or the rest of the family and seems to have just given up. He has been given antidepressants by his GP but they don’t seem to have made any difference. The community nurse calls on him but she is at a loss to know what to do as are we. Anyone have any suggestions as to how to help him. We’re so worried.
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?