I often (mostly) read non fiction. This is the most recent one I read (I copied some of this from a book review I wrote for my book club, so it's a bit of a cut and paste job below):
I picked up The Memory Palace by Mira Bartok in a "Help yourself" box when we were on holiday in Florida in February.
It is the powerful story of Mira and her sister Natalia growing up with their mother. Norma Bartok is a musical protege and a loving mother, but she suffers from schizophrenia – and bear in mind, this is the 1970s – so there wasn’t much in the way of help for mental illness.
I was shocked at first to read that as young adults the sisters abandon their mother to the Chicago streets, the homeless hostels and the patchy psychiatric services of the times, by moving away and even changing their names. I should say almost shocked, because actually, I understood why they did that. They had lived with it since they were little. As adults, it became a choice between making lives for themselves, or constantly facing situations too fraught to contemplate. It was a case of leaving Norma to her fate, or not being able to live a life that many of us take for granted, unimpeded by a mother who is mentally ill.
The book starts with the sisters being reunited with their mother after 17 long years when Norma becomes ill. Although they abandoned her, the author had put an elaborate scheme in place, to have some knowledge of where Norma was. I felt deeply sorry for their mum, she had so much to give and it was all taken away from her in the lottery of life.