We meet up every two months as we are all rather busy in the evenings. There are six of us, so that works nicely as we each know when its our turn, by the calendar. We choose two or three books, quite often at least one of them will be from the Man Booker prize list, or those shortlisted for the list. I try to choose something beautifully written, then something funny, then either a thriller or a historical one. I've already picked one for my next turn to choose - Bitter Greens by Kate Forsyth - it's wonderful, I am reading it now.
We arrive, have a drink (whatever we want, tea or coffee or wine or something) and talk about each book. However we all read a lot, so there will always be sideways recommendations going on throughout, two of our ladies, like romances, two like witchcraft and demons, the other, like me, will read anything. I reckon the final hour is chat, but even so, we do keep coming back to the books we have just read. Sometimes a couple of the slower readers won't have managed them all. We also spend quuite a while discussing the ones for the next meeting, as sometimes the hostess will offer quite a selection.
I don't think I could cope with a meeting in which I was asked the motive of one of the characters, or had a dissection chapter by chapter. It would be too much like school! The books read do stretch us, and challenge us and our beliefs. They make us think, they are often books that we would never pick up in a library for ourselves.