Mum aged 94 moved in with us a week ago. She has a pleasant nature and is no trouble really. But she is, naturally, somewhat demanding. I'm constantly making tea, distributing pills, finding something, buying something, cooking something ... etc. Anyone who has done it will understand. I would like to find some more help for me. Am wondering whether to get somebody to do my ironing or possibly cleaning? My main gripe is the extra cooking... not something I enjoy at the best of times but there's no way round that really except for instant meals. Feeling trapped already and just wondering if anyone has any ideas how I can make my own life easier. DH is very good but is domestically-challenged. I believe AgeUK can provide help - assuming I'd have to pay but that's not a problem. Mum isn't particularly sociable so won't want volunteers who come just to chat. Need to find a way forward so we're all happy. Currently I'm worn out after 1 week. I was talked into this really but want to do my very best.
Good Morning Saturday 20th April 2024
Estranged Son and Future Granddaughter
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