Started a new thread as my 2 sons still live in good ol Blighty. Even so waving them off always brings a lump to my throat AND tears to my eyes. I do recall , as they set off for University, that from then on I would only see them for holidays. I felt awful, but wished them well, wanting only the best for them.
Both have set up home near their MILs, at first I was so envious, but those feelings have now passed...... it does take time tho.
No. 2 son and his wife have just been down for a short weekend, we had a lovely time but, for me, those feelings of loss have returned. ( They do each time but I do recover my equilibrium more quickly these days.)
Compared with the experiences of those of you who are waving off sons and daughters who are travelling great distances, and to places of danger, this seems pathetic of me. But I do feel better now I have shared my feelings with you all! xx
Being quizzed by chemist's assistant in Boots.