Struggling...

Lots of love to you, too, nellie, ♥

I hope you feel better soon, you derserve to!

Best wishes to you and yours, nelliesmol. We'll save a warm gransnet spot for you.

nellie It's a rotten place to be, so wishing you all good speed in feeling better.
Take care. x

Warm wishes for Christmas - you have bounced back before and will do so again I am sure.

Big hug, dear Nellie. Come back soon, and look after yourself in the middle of looking after everyone else!

Nip in when you feel like saying hello SmolNellie. You know we're here when you need us

Take care Nellie....left one behind the bar for you x

Ahh Nellie we will all be here when you are up to coming back xx {{{hugs}}}

Hi Nelliesmol, sorry you are feeling low. We're here for you - it's a difficult time of year, isn't it? I hope you get a bit of time to yourself over the so-called 'festive' season. x x x

Keep positive Nellie - it's a tough time. Look after yourself {hugs}

nellie It's a bad time isn't it? Am finding it hard too but not anything like your level, look after yourself xxx

nellie ((((((hugs))))))

Take care of yourself nellie/smol

Big hug, nellie - we are here for you whenver you need us - in the meantime look after yourself too

((((hugs)))) Nellie S.

Lots of hugs and good wishes from here too, Nellie!

nellie los of hugs and love to you and yours, take care and come back when you can

Ella love and hugs to you too.

I always feel so sorry for people who struggle around this time of year. I'm not that great with it myself, but as a woman said to me in the supermarket this week, only a few more days and it will all be over.

NellieSmol, I've missed your posts and wondered if you were ok. It can be a right 'despairing' time, can Christmas-time. It'll pass, and we'll all be here for you and those others who are feeling so very sad just now. Be kind to yourselves.

nellie...its all over,,,yippeee,,,,,try to be strong think of yourself,,,,if you were on this site we could all give you a hug,,,thats all some women want sometimes,.....not sex not gropes just a warm strong hug,,,,,no talking no lectures just a hug, you havent shared your problem with us,,,but if it helps,,,,,a lot of us have or are having problems in their life, but we all need to be strong,,,,,i have had severe depression,,,was all alone for years while my husband worked abroad, i have cried oaceans...lived on tablets..wanted to die many times,,,,,,but you have to get through it ,,,no one can do it but you, i have no reason to be depressed,,,but i lost my dad and then i lost my mum ,,,,they were divorced and my dad had someone else, i havent had a happy childhood no love in it, lots of things gone on in my life,,,,but be strong,,,move on and think of yourself,,,go treat yourself,,,,,,have a pamper day,,,,,,,take care,,,,we are all here for you,,,,,,and remember there is always someone here worse off than yourself,

angiebaby, I'm sure your post means to be light-hearted and well-meaning, but sometimes things happen in people's lives that are never sorted by a pamper day, or by treating oneself. Sometimes the wherewithal isn't there to do it with, and neither is the inclination. If it works for you, though, then that's a good thing.

I do feel sense of relief that Xmas nearly over!

was amazing see my son and his partner was so lovely making us delish xmas dinner, but be both felt very tense, OH WAS not that well and awful drive.
still was good see our son and I find it relief that new year now and we can all get back to normal!
Having friends for meal tom and club meeting in afternoon then hey presto decorating!!

sorry meant to say sorry not very good for Smoluski i missed her post, and do hope 2013 is easier for her. all the best and we will all support you any way we can just being able to sound off helps I find for her and anyone else going through struggle at moment.

marrelli...yes i agree...but trying to do something for yourself to give yourself a hug is really what i mean yes i know...i have problems too,,,,,i know it doesnt go away so easily,,,,sleepless nights,,,feeling sick,,,feeling dizzy,,,all the stress,,,you sem all alone,,,no one cares,,,but at least i feel i can chat on hear.......trouble is a lot of people doesnt understand,,,,,,,i havent seen or heard from my daughter for 3 weeks tomorrow now,,,she is only round the corner,,,its heart breaking,,,,,,but i plod on,,,,