How do I tell them/

I’m sure they will understand your concerns so just tell them.

They rely on us so its a problem.

They will not be able to rely on you if you catch the virus so I am sure they will understand.

You will not be the only people in your situation. I suspect thousands of family's will be in the same boat.

Hopefully the governement will make some gesture towards families facing your dilemma. Why not contact your MP and ask.

I am feeling so guilty. If it was just me I would have them and take my chances but I can not inflict this on my husband it would be so unfair.

I would think they'll be just as worried as you are if the virus reaches your town.

I'm sure they would worry about you both getting ill.

Good idea M0nica

One serious post...one funny post...hmmm

I think your grandchildren's parents will understand. They will, I hope, think of your health.

Let's hope it doesn't reach your town.

I am sure they are worried about you, people do not always put it into words. They would not want you to put yourselves at risk.

I'm sure they'll have already thought about a contingency plan.

Just let them know of your concerns for your husband's health. Perhaps they can find a childminder or local mum to take over for now. Don't wait too long either.

My son and daughter are keeping away with their kids as they worry about me. I'm 66 with just slightly high blood pressure and allergic asthma. I've started wheezing and coughing with the tree pollen this week, too!

I think we are all concerned about the children and grandchildren but we really should be keeping our distance. The parents need to make other plans and also for when the schools close or if they catch it. They cannot rely on grandparents in this instance, they need help from their own generation. I think the younger ones need to step up to the plate and help each other as people did in the past, either their siblings or friends.

You need to tell them ASAP so they can look into other care.

I’m sure they will understand

Presumably lots of parents will be in this position, so it may turn out to be quite difficult to find appropriate child care.

Maybe Summerlove has a point, sooner rather than later!

It's a worry but you need to be honest with them and point out that if you catch the virus then it could be serious for you both.

I am still allowed to have some humor!

Yes of course you are Grandmaclampet a little light relief is always welcome
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Talk to your family about your concerns and get alternative plans ready. I do think that its the responsibility of the parents to ensure the care of their children, Grandparents should not feel guilty because they cannot always help.

Is it just me but i didnt see the funny/ humour post??

If they start closing schools then theyl probably start closing work plàces too so it wouldnt be a problem then,they could look after their own kids..anyway surely your family wouldnt expect you to look after them all day every day if schools closed,would they?? Surely that would be too much for you anyway??

Look at it another way to ease your guilt, if you were to catch it and god forbid the worst happened they wouldn’t have you to look after the grandchildren then anyway and that would be permanent at least this is just temporary. Could you not look at helping with nursery fees on the days you have them if the worst happens and it does get to your area.

Your GC's parents may find themselves being told to work at home anyway! My DD and DS have each done "practise" day at home.

My first thought was that, if my granchildren's schools close down, I would go and stay at their house but then I had second thoughts. I have bronchiectasis and have been treated for two years for a serious bacterial lung infection.

It is inconvenient for my daughter but she understands.

I think if you are in a vulnerable group you must protect yourselves as much as you can. I am in a vulnerable group due to diabetes and work in an older peoples home. I have two daughters. The youngest lives close by and also works in care and is very anxious about my chances of getting it. My eldest is currently on holiday in Portugal with grandchildren and husband,although was a little apprehensive is enjoying. She has mentioned visiting for mothers day/Easter. Hmm I think we may all be in a different situation by then!
I'm not over worried about daughters and grandchildren as all fit and healthy and not in vulnerable group.
I think there is so much info about virus at moment,maybe too much! That said how in tune to that information are your childeren? I work with a wide age group as are my friends. Opinions vary from not at all concerned as just a bad cold to extremely concerned. I spoke to a friend today who has breast cancer and is undergoing radiotherapy and was aware of hand washing but not that you should avoid touching your face unless washed hands. Shes someone who doesnt really watch news or engage in social media. It may have been the hospital gave her a leaflet but hadn't really read it!
In summary dont assume other peoples actions are in your best interests or that they are even aware of the full implications for you.