My husband occasionally does things that I find mildly annoying; for example, whenever he washes up (rarely as we have a dishwasher) he usually turns the washing up bowl upside down afterwards. Why? What is the point? It's a mild irritant, nothing more. But I once mentioned it to a friend who immediately assumed he does it deliberately to annoy me and went into details about several things she does, on purpose, just to irritate her husband.
I am certain that my husband does NOT deliberately do things to annoy me, nor I him, but it got me wondering whether this is widespread. Is this something that people actually do? And if so, why?
Is it me or am I getting mixed messages