Not to Marry the first man that Asked, and not to Marry too young, I was strong willed and insecure in that if I believed her over these two things, I would be left on the Shelf.
I took no notice of her, married my Boyfiend of 2years on my 19th Birthday, had 3 Daughters before I turned 24, and Divorced him 5 years later. We still remain distant friends via my Daughters, he went on to have two more failed Marriages, and now lived alone.
I went on to remarry two years later, and remain with DH2 till this day, we have two Daughters together, now both with families of their own and decent Careers, DH2 has always put them first in his life, they had an amazing childhood, whilst DH1 became more interested in Wine, Women, and Song!