Nannysprout
Thanks for your replies ladies. I felt a bit low on Sunday as one of my closer friends has become more distant over the last few months but I'm sure we will pick up again when this is all over. I have found the same as you Bluebelle some friendships have stayed strong and others have just drifted. Hopefully some sort of normality will be restored next year at some point and maybe it will be a good time to start a new interest or venture in life ?.
I hope so too, Nannysprout.
I do hope that this thread doesn't turn into one where people boast about how strong their own friendship groups have remained, as that is not going to help those who are feeling down (I don't know why people do that).
Anyway, I have found the same as you, in that people I saw regularly but only in certain situations (eg groups) have drifted off, but will probably come back again as things improve. They weren't real friends in the first place, I suppose - they were acquaintances then, and will be again.
I have made an effort to keep in touch with people I saw socially, as opposed to occasional group meetings. I am usually the one to make contact anyway, and I have been the one keeping things going through the pandemic. I think that most groups of people have one person who holds things together by arranging things, and others who never think to do it, but are pleased that someone does - they seem to think that arrangements just happen . I have organised a couple of Zoom meet-ups, and made a few telephone calls, so that when we are able to meet again it will be easier to pick up where we left off - could you do that?
I understand the feeling that when we come out of the other side of this we don't want to be on our own, but at the same time, I think that a lot of people will feel the same, and there will be a lot of us looking for new things to do and people to meet.
For now, I am keeping myself busy, and can fill my time quite easily, but I am more than ready to get out amongst people again - I am a social creature, and miss personal contact. I'm lucky enough to have my husband, but with the best will in the world, we do sometimes struggle to be scintillating when neither of us has done anything or been anywhere for so long!
Maybe set up a group of your own? Something like a reading group could start online, and then become a face to face meeting when you can. Or if that's not your thing, even a coffee morning could happen over Zoom, or a glass of wine in the evening.
If you have a local Facebook group, that could be a good place to start making enquiries about who else might be interested.