A dramatic opening, isn’t it? My husband of 50 years is in the last stages of lung cancer. In 2006 on Feb 16th - yes I know the exact date - I confirmed my suspicions that he was having an affair and confronted him. He acknowledged it. He was not very helpful in terms of rebuilding our marriage but also wasn’t interested in ending it. I went to counseling myself and we managed to save our marriage, albeit I feel I did most of the “work.” On Feb 16 2021 - yes exactly 15 years later - a man wrote me a letter saying in 1996-97 my husband had an affair with his wife. He claims that he got conflicting info from her at the time but recently he confronted her again and she confirmed the affair. His details - my husband’s age, his car, etc are spot on. I read the letter to my husband who denies the affair despite acknowledging that this woman - who worked with him - had some contact with each other at work and outside of work since she requested some assistance from him (he was a teacher and she was studying to be one). I frankly am not sure what to believe. Why would my husband acknowledge the 2006 affair but deny this one? The timing of the earlier affair, however, “fits” in my recollection of what our marriage was like at the time (some issues). He has nothing to lose by acknowledging it - I will be by his side easing him from this life no matter what. But I feel entitled to the truth. This man and woman live literally a mile away - I know their address. I wrote to the man explaining that he and his wife are accusing a dying man of something he denies and that clearly someone is lying. I’m inclined to believe this happened - leopards and spots, etc. My question is do I tell my husband that I don’t believe his denial?
If I had to choose.....just one day
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