I am at a true crossroad in my life. I am 71 and have sadly just lost my beloved DH of 50 years after a lengthy illness. I have always hated where we live (mostly the climate) but he would never have dreamt of moving. DS, his ex, and DGS live in the same area only because of DH’s illness. We function quite well as a family unit despite DS’s and his ex’s (amicable) divorce. I know they’ll want to move and since DS is my only immediate family (parents deceased and I’m an only child) I want to go where they go. I realize I’d be giving up my life here in terms of proximity to life-long friends, DH’s family, etc. I tend to be quite content alone but am not anti-social. I have heard it’s a mistake to move to follow your children because they have their own lives to attend to and yet DGS is only 5 so I still provide childcare at times and DS and ex do things for me if needed. I am in excellent health and am a “young” 71. Obviously I am not doing anything anytime soon as we are just beginning to process our profound grief but since DH’s illness was so long and the outcome predictable we had all talked about plans for the future. Opinions and experiences welcome.
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