Of course you're not lazy, AussieGran. There are all sorts of reasons and we have our disabilities,too. I am just thinking of our narrow set of friends here who we have known for hundreds of years. I have terrible eyesight and anything more than a couple of metres away is a blur , have to wear glasses all the time. Most friends have much better sight than I do so they could feel smug too!!
Kate Garroway-Care at home costs