Thank you all! I couldn't imagine waking up on Christmas morning to no exchange of gifts, that would, to me at least, feel very sad all the time that we have one another. I have now got him: a bottle with stuff in that you add white rum to and make pina colada (we drank loads on our last holiday), a "remote boat" as we have so many remote controls one or the other of us are always accidently sitting on them and accidently turning over the tv, turning on a light, turning on the fire - we have remote everything so will be good to keep them safely together! I have also had a bowl personalised with "cereal killer" with blood running down the sides and his name on. Sad but true! Oh and some smellies although he has gallons but it IS Christmas! Chocolate coins and some socks, of course! Nothing thrilling but something to unwrap. I'll do a card and suggest a trip to the theatre or a weekend away that we would chose together. Happy Christmas!