My DS moved in with us a little less than a year ago after his divorce. My DH died about six weeks ago and of course having DS here was helpful during DH’s illness and is now. We are very alike in terms of having been only children who value our “space” and solitude. Since DH’s death, however, my grief often takes the guise of anxiety. I try to not hover over DS who is 40 and obviously a grown man. If he didn’t live here, I’d have no notion of where he is when not home or at work, etc. but I’m wondering if it would be too intrusive at this point to at least ask him to text me about where he is if, for example, he’s scheduled to work until a certain time but arrives home much later. I’m sure my heightened anxiety is partly due to the profound loss I’ve experienced - he’s grieving as well of course so I’m wary about adding any pressure. What are your expectations for your ACs who reside with you?
Is it me or am I getting mixed messages
How do you acknowledge Easter.