my grown daughter and i had an argument recently and i told her that i love her but sometimes i really don’t like her for the things she has done in the past (dating married men, marrying a man so his family would pay for her college( she told me she married him for the “end result-money”. she now has a new husband who is wonderful but will not allow him to have his boys from a previous marriage visit him. After our argument she said she wants nothing to do with me. I believe she is afraid i will share her past with her new husband. I was not allowed to participate in her 40th birthday party (i ordered a cake and bought the decorations). yesterday i was going to walk my dog and asked if my 5yo granddaughter could join us. She said, in front of her husband that i was unstable and she did not trust me to be around my GC. i have always loved my grandchild and would never let anything happen to her. i have never been so hurt as to being told i am unstable. i don’t know what to do
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic