Add me to the list with EC/AC too! Unfortunately both AC have headed down the same path, who knows why? Their respective spouses are so much alike they should all live together. Worst part is the GC, I can't imagine how much their minds have been poisoned. No arguments with either AC, they just faded away...AD left in early 1993, AS 8 yrs ago.
AS and his NW (narc wife) moved house and I guess they still live in the general area as they stalk me on a regular basis. A couple of years ago I was walking in a shopping centre and got this creepy feeling that someone was following me. So as I turned a corner to the next lot of stores, I did an about face and just stood there waiting....whoa!! who should come around the corner not expecting me to be standing there and who had red faces?? AS and NW!
They moved house around 7 or so years ago and I don't have a clue where they live which is difficult because I want to sell my house (due to the ongoing stalking) but I could buy next door to them without knowing, so I'll stay here for a bit longer. Unfortunately, they have changed cars so they could be stalking me more than ever, but there is no way for me to know.
Whiff put it perfectly, my heart has been bent too, but why? I know I will die wondering as they won't even talk, let alone have a discussion in the hope we can come to some agreement. My door is always open but I refuse to be a doormat for them to trample.