Good Evening.
I am not a grandparent so I hope it’s okay to post here.
My DH and I have been no contact with his parents since my DS was very small. It’s a very long story but DH had to have months of counselling for how they treated him (and me) and feel it isn’t safe for our DS to have a relationship with them. DH doesn’t want one either, nor does his only sister and her family.
My worry is how to explain this to DS as he gets older and wonders about them. I don’t want to lie to him but I also think it would be very upsetting for him to hear about the affect it had on his parents. It will be his choice whether he wants to meet them when he’s older, I am very worried about that as I have seen what their emotional abuse did to DH. If they could do that to their own DC what would they do to mine?
Thank you for reading x
Good Morning Saturday 20th April 2024
Estranged Son and Future Granddaughter
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic