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Rudeness towards Charlie Dimmock

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Musicgirl Wed 25-Aug-21 19:27:50

On my google I have various topics that may interest me coming up. However, I notice that Charlie Dimmock and how she has changed over the years seems to be there more and more often and the tone is not very flattering; commenting on how much she has changed over the years. I find it rude that in this day and age the media feel it is perfectly fine to comment about a woman’s looks rather than her talent. - in this case her green fingers. We all change as we age but it seems that it is still allowable to comment freely on a woman whereas a man is assessed on his ability rather than his appearance. What do you think?

GagaJo Wed 25-Aug-21 20:03:57

I mostly agree. 95% or so. But I do think she allowed the media to play on her sexiness when she was first in the media spotlight, and as a result, is bound to be compared.

Although, having said that, Diane Abbott is slated for her appearance these days and never presented herself as political eye candy so...

I think I'm 100% with you now!

BlueBelle Wed 25-Aug-21 20:09:57

Havent seen anything about her but then I don’t have google messaging me
Of course she’s changed, we all have, she was never top of my favourite list anyway but I don’t think men come off any better I saw a lot of critics of Laurence llewellen Bowan s looks and dress sense on here recently
I think people (particularly in this country) do a lot of criticism of others appearances

Amberone Wed 25-Aug-21 20:34:49

I saw a lot of critics of Laurence llewellen Bowan s looks and dress sense on here recently

I was thinking the same thing Bluebelle

Aveline Wed 25-Aug-21 20:39:47

It's my guilty secret but I think Laurence Lewellyn Bowen is gorgeous. Don't tell anyone I said that though.blush

MerylStreep Wed 25-Aug-21 20:47:15

Aveline
Your not alone? Although the leather trousers didn’t exactly do it for me.

Namsnanny Wed 25-Aug-21 20:48:40

I dont think it's anything to do with this country or any other country to be honest.

At least I see no indicators of it being more prevalent in Europe or USA.

I remember Mary Beard and the awful things said about her.

MayBee70 Wed 25-Aug-21 20:54:28

I do remember a picture of Charlie in a magazine naked with just a few strategically placed flowers. Which seemed a bit odd at the time. And she did make a big thing about never wearing a bra, too.

NotTooOld Wed 25-Aug-21 22:14:26

I agree with the OP. I doubt anyone in their 50s (or whatever) would stand up to being compared to themselves in their 20s. I certainly would not. I wish now I had appreciated my looks when I was in my 20s.

JaneJudge Wed 25-Aug-21 22:16:36

she was working at a garden centre when she started on ground force and she still works at a garden centre now!
no one needs to comment on anything

lemsip Wed 25-Aug-21 23:01:42

sadly her mother and stepfather were killed in the tsunami in 2004.

BlueBelle Thu 26-Aug-21 06:55:13

I do think U.K. are very critical people you don’t find it nearly so much in less privileged countries namsnanny we nit pick everything like it’s our right
The only thing I ll say about Charlie Dimmock is she played on her free boobs and flowing red hair when she started out so I suppose people see a big difference now if she had just played on her gardening skills in the beginning there wouldn’t be anything to talk about now (that doesn’t make it right though) The media is to blame for most things

Calendargirl Thu 26-Aug-21 07:10:59

Like most of us, she has aged and put on weight. Always well endowed, she probably needs more support in the bra area than she did 30 or so years ago.

You just don’t look the same in your 50’s, if that’s her age, as you did in your 20’s and 30’s.

Katie59 Thu 26-Aug-21 07:29:36

Charlie got a lot of attention years ago when she was messy but credible, the media very often feature celebrities with eccentric styles.
Now to be blunt she is just a mess, would I go on screen looking like that, not in a million years.

wildswan16 Thu 26-Aug-21 08:29:46

I just think she is a breath of fresh air! She is knowledgeable and skilful in her chosen profession. I loved watching her on Garden Rescue, along with the two Rich brothers. I never give her appearance a thought, (but have always loved her hair).

Sarnia Thu 26-Aug-21 08:57:26

Does it matter what she looks like? She is a gardener for heaven's sake. She's not likely to turn up with manicured talons and designer clothes. Just because she dares to weigh more than 8 stone, she is a target for the image police. Leave the poor woman alone.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 26-Aug-21 09:05:11

I agree with you Katie. She’s trying to be the same as she was 30 odd years ago and it just doesn’t work any more. She might have looked sexy to some men back in the day but now she just looks messy, and dare I say grubby even for a gardener. Wish she’d get a decent bra and tie her hair back! My hair is just a bit shorter than hers but unkempt it isn’t, and there’s no way I could be gardening, which I do most days, without tying it up. She’s very good at what she does but I find her very irritating these days because she seems to delight in looking a mess. I will now duck before the bricks hit me.

Galaxy Thu 26-Aug-21 09:12:39

Perhaps she has got to the stage where she realises that whatever you do with your appearance as a woman someone will have a view on it.

MerylStreep Thu 26-Aug-21 09:22:10

Germanshepherdsmum
I couldn’t agree more. Particularly the grubby.
I garden for 2 other people besides keeping my own looking lovely.
All according to what I’m doing my hair will look good and, I have my nails done every 3 weeks.

Witzend Thu 26-Aug-21 09:23:52

BlueBelle

I do think U.K. are very critical people you don’t find it nearly so much in less privileged countries namsnanny we nit pick everything like it’s our right
The only thing I ll say about Charlie Dimmock is she played on her free boobs and flowing red hair when she started out so I suppose people see a big difference now if she had just played on her gardening skills in the beginning there wouldn’t be anything to talk about now (that doesn’t make it right though) The media is to blame for most things

Have you personal experience of living in less nitpicking, less privileged countries, BlueBelle?

I can’t help wondering, since I have lived in other countries/cultures where people were honestly much the same, and in fact often more keen to criticise if you happened to be
foreign.

I do notice that it’s popular on GN to assume that everything is always better/nicer outside the U.K.

Galaxy Thu 26-Aug-21 09:24:29

But that's fine for you and of no business of mine but for me I would rather stick pins in my eyes than have my nails done three times a week. Perhaps she is the same.

Galaxy Thu 26-Aug-21 09:24:48

Every 3 weeks that should say grin

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 26-Aug-21 09:28:59

Good for you Meryl. I fear my nails aren’t wonderful with the gardening but they are scrubbed, and my hair is clean and brushed too.

Gwyneth Thu 26-Aug-21 10:06:10

I haven’t seen any comments re Diane Abbott’s appearance gagajo. However, as many women in the public eye unfairly have their dress sense/appearance scrutinised constantly why should Abbott be treated any differently?

henetha Thu 26-Aug-21 10:12:44

I just think Charlie always seems like a really nice person, and good at gardening. I do think it's a pity that such emphasis is placed on the way she looks.