Its all I thought it would be and more. The biggest pleasure for me is watching my daughter grow into an amazing mother. She hasnt done evrything the way I would have, but it all works for them, and there is more than a tinge of self stisfaction when she starts talking about the perils of unhealthy eating, or how the baby needs love, not new things- I never thought my values would have sunk in so well! I have a great relationship with my daughter, so have always felt comfortable to ask her if its ok if I do such and such when looking after the baby, I know if she doesnt like it she will say. After they moved out I also asked how she felt about me cleaning or tidying when I go to her house - does she want me to ignore the mess, to help tidy, or take the baby out while she tidies? She says she will mot be the least bit upset if I tidy up! As for her partner, I get on great with him, but if not I think I would verge on the side of "keep your friends close and your enemies closer" and do what I could to build up a positive relationship with him. Good luck, and enjoy it.