My first grandson was born in June of this year and, from the very start, my son and DIL made every excuse under the sun as to why my sister couldn't see him. Basically, my family are very much "wait until you are invited" whereas her family tend to drop in. Even I feel that I have to ring and ask when I can call and see him. I rang on Thursday evening and my DIL said that Sunday might work!! Their argument seems to be, why does she want to see the baby when they don't have any contact! My sister sent a card and present when the baby was born and has been waiting for them to say when she can see the baby.I feel stuck in the middle and am getting fed up with making excuses, it's ambarrassing. My family are close, and if we need each other were are straight there but, we may go several months without seeing each other but, it doesn't mean we don't care for each other. Am I over reacting? I don't understand why they are so anti, what has she done wrong?
Passports not in the drawer I always keep them in. Turning the place upside down.
Son’s girlfriend diagnosed with BPD