I will try to be brief to give some background. My daughter aged 37 died in April 2017 leaving her husband and two children aged 7 and 5. We have not had any contact or spoken to our grandchildren since Sept 23rd 2017. Gifts sent have been rejected or sent back unopened, even greeting cards. We were very much involved with our GCs from their birth up until my DD passed. SIL suddenly decided we were not to be involved in their lives anymore and moved 3 hours away. We had only two afternoons with them one in August 2017 and again in September 2017. He made excuses in October and November and then told my other daughter that we will never see our GCs again. It has now been 17 months since we last saw or heard anything from them. Apparently he moved April 2018 and changed contact number. He has cut off all our side of the family now. My question is would it be wrong to contact their school to ask how they are, Whether they are happy healthy and enjoying school life. We are beside ourselves with worry. He has had spells of depression over the years and also can drink excessively. We are both heartbroken and each day that passes continues to cause us so much pain. I never knew I could hate someone so much and my hatred of son-in- law intensifies as time passes. I just wondered if legally the Head teacher could just reassure us that they are doing well and that there are no concerns. My husband thinks I should leave well alone because the head may be obliged to tell him we have been in contact and therefore he may take them out of their school which after looking on their website appears to be a very good school. Your advice would be welcome,
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