My DD and SiL are extremely houseproud and both work full time. My 6 year old GS isn't allowed to make a mess in the house or have a pet, which he desperately wants. Not even a goldfish or an outside pet. I look after GS after school and yesterday I had bought him a pack of water bomb balls for fun in the garden. We were playing with them outside and had spilt a couple of drops of water on the kitchen floor. When DD and SiL arrived home they gave him such a telling off for making a big mess and told him never to do it again. Anyone would have thought we had spilt mud all over the floor, which is easily wipeable. A couple of years ago my GS and I were sharing a cake in the kitchen and SiL continually hoovered around us while we were eating! I did ask why he couldn't wait until we had finished at least! My DD was brought up with pets and other children and was allowed to make a mess, so it must be SiL's influence, but now she is as bad as him. It breaks my heart for my GS to be brought up in such a sterile environment, but I don't know how to handle it. I do try to bring fun into his life but hate the fact he has to live under this regime.
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