Hello - this is my first post. I'm 61, daughter 31, first grandchild due 11 July. She lives 200 miles away and is hoping lockdown will allow me to visit her and stay to help her out for a while - at least at some point. We have a good relationship - I work full time but very flexible hours - so all ought to be fine ... BUT
I dont feel ready to be a grandma yet- of course I love her and want to support her, especially as, unlike me, she is very into babies, (I was never maternal- I loved my own two (younger brother 28) and they've turned out well, but I am not one to coo over babies) What if I don't bond with this baby? What if I have forgotten how to look after babies? Literally I haven't had much to do babies since she and her brother were babies. I've always seen my daughter as a strong independent career woman (and she is) but it seems she is looking to her mum for support with a new baby - and I am anxious in case I disappoint her. Could anyone reassure me? Thanks! I feel I should be all excited .. but I'm uneasy.
Estranged Son and Future Granddaughter
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic