A frequent discussion! We are retired mid 60’s both fit and healthy living in beautiful Northumberland in a lovely house we renovated to our own standards 12 years ago. We love it here, great community etc. There is a lot to miss but in non covid times we spend a lot of time away sailing or camper vanning and the rest of the time travelling a 6 hour round trip to see our dd’s and gd and gs (1 each - aged 1 and 3) who handily live in the same town! They are there to stay ( as far as one can tell) with stable relationships, jobs, houses etc. We love seeing them and miss them dreadfully when we don’t . We have talked constantly about moving nearer and I don’t know why it is proving so hard to make the leap! Strangely we have both said that without the other we would go immediately. I am finding it hard to know what is stopping us - fear of the unknown ? Who has been in this situation and how difficult has it been for you?
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