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LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 23-Apr-15 16:49:19

A loving home with an armchair to relax in

This National Pet Month we hear from Doug Brown, a retired school teacher from Southampton who took the plunge and adopted a cat from Cats Protection League. This is what he had to say to anyone hesitating to adopt an older cat.

Doug Brown

A loving home with an armchair to relax in

Posted on: Thu 23-Apr-15 16:49:19

(4 comments )

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Doug and Thomas

When Cats Protection asked if I was prepared to take on an older cat, I said "of course" - I'm not so young myself so thought we'd get on well! After hearing about a 15 year old tabby needing a place where 'he can spend his remaining years in the comfort of a loving home with an armchair to relax in' I just had to find out more about him. It turns out that Thomas’ elderly owner had died, the house had been sold and he was now living at the bottom of the garden and being fed by the neighbours. That house was all he had ever known, after all.

When Cats Protection (in the person of Nicky) took me to see him, to my delight and to everyone's surprise within two minutes he jumped onto my lap and with a confident, rumbling purr made my acquaintance - friends at first sight! That was mid August. Butch, who I renamed Thomas, came to live with me on 16 September after my summer holiday. He is quite a character, very affectionate and so happy when I make a fuss of him - a real lap cat!

What would I say to a retired person looking to adopt? It's the best thing you could possibly do. Having a living creature to care for keeps you occupied, gives you focus and most importantly, brings a wealth of happiness.


On the other hand, he is absolutely sure of what he wants and tells me with a loud MIAOW. My favourite (and new) relaxer armchair is now his and his alone! He is a very sensible cat with good manners, always grooming himself and I didn't need to show him where his litter tray was, he found it for himself. He empties his plate, eating happily, though he prefers basic pet food to anything else except fresh chicken, which is perfection as far as Thomas is concerned - as his little nose and strident voice testify when, on a Sunday, I prepare a roast chicken lunch.

One thing that does bemuse me is that Thomas’ previous owner lived in a bungalow and I live in a house, and of course bungalows don't have upstairs. So whilst Thomas will follow me around the house, he has never been upstairs! When I say "It's time for bed Thomas!" he will follow me to the staircase but no further. He is always by my side otherwise.

I have had cats all my life. After Leo, a glorious tabby who had been with me for 17 years, passed away last year, I must admit I did initially question whether I should get another, but I am so very glad that I did. What would I say to a retired person looking to adopt? It's the best thing you could possibly do. Having a living creature to care for keeps you occupied, gives you focus and most importantly, brings a wealth of happiness. Fifteen he may be but Thomas is a total delight, I am so glad he has come to live with me.

To adopt a cat from Cats Protection, take a look at their website to find cats in need of homes in your area.

By Doug Brown

Twitter: @catsprotection

page Sat 25-Apr-15 16:20:59

What a beautiful story, I agree so much, pets are wonderful company for lonely and elderly people, I have always had pets all my life, but circumstances changed my life, and I now rent a small house of which the agreement says NO pets....coming home to an empty house or coming home to a loving cat, makes such a difference to that alone feeling....I think the idea of older people adopting older pets is a lovely touching idea, as we all know the older pets are more or less doomed to a short stay in these sanctuaries, to make room for all the young and baby animals brought in....I do hope these sanctuaries encourage this idea when older people apply for a pet. after all we wouldn't want to be put down just because we are old, we, like the animals, could have a healthy body and mind, to enjoy life still for many years to come.

Parcs Sat 25-Apr-15 18:51:30

Page sorry you can not keep a pet, to be honest I think I would break that rule.

Parcs Sat 25-Apr-15 18:54:16

Some landlords do inspect their properties regularly and then he might see the pet, I just think that its such a ridiculous rule!!

Parcs Sat 25-Apr-15 18:54:57

Its something to do with wear and tare I believe but how much wear n tare can a cat cause!