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Rape and sexual assault

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Esspee Wed 18-May-22 07:01:52

The Tories now have an MP who has been arrested on suspicion of rape and sexual assault.

What depths of depravity does our current government have to sink to before they lose the support of every decent respectable person in this country?

It makes you ashamed to be British.

BlueBelle Wed 18-May-22 07:19:26

Yes I m very ashamed of my country for a number of reasons
The world must really look down on us and our dreadful behaviour
I can’t find a decent one amongst any of the present government members and how they are still in office and still voted for I ll never work out

Visgir1 Wed 18-May-22 07:32:31

The word is "suspicious" it not proven yet.

DiamondLily Wed 18-May-22 07:33:27

It's currently being discussed on the end of this thread:

www.gransnet.com/forums/news_and_politics/1308664-More-Tory-sleaze

Kandinsky Wed 18-May-22 07:38:00

It’s an allegation going back over 15 years.
He could be entirely innocent for all we know.

You should be ashamed of yourself for immediately thinking he’s guilty.

Galaxy Wed 18-May-22 07:43:11

I am not really sure what you mean. Are you ashamed because someone in your country committed rape, its really difficult to compare rape statistics across countries because of different reporting methods but Britain is not in the top ten. Are you ashamed because they are in a position of power? Your job has no impact on whether you will commit rape. I would no more defend this government than fly to the moon but we do need to be careful about discussing rape/sexual assault. There are enough myths floating about as it is.

Galaxy Wed 18-May-22 07:44:33

Sorry allegedly committed rape but you get my point. If hes found guilty I would say the same about shame etc.

Kim19 Wed 18-May-22 07:53:55

Do we know why it has taken so long for this accusation to be made?

GrannyGravy13 Wed 18-May-22 07:54:06

Why would anyone feel ashamed of their country due to a man who happens to be an MP being under investigation for sexual assault and rape?

How will it impact you?

maddyone Wed 18-May-22 08:00:19

GrannyGravy13

Why would anyone feel ashamed of their country due to a man who happens to be an MP being under investigation for sexual assault and rape?

How will it impact you?

Yes, it’s ridiculous to say you’re ashamed of your country because someone has been accused of rape. Not convicted, accused.

maddyone Wed 18-May-22 08:02:43

The world must really look down on us and our dreadful behaviour.

Zelensky certainly doesn’t look down on us.

AGAA4 Wed 18-May-22 08:12:57

Police haven't confirmed the man is an MP. He is under investigation so I will reserve judgement until things are clearer.

Kandinsky Wed 18-May-22 08:18:12

The world must really look down on us and our dreadful behaviour

Extreme over inflated ego about the UK there.
Like ‘The World’ is watching our every move. lol

‘World war 3 is possible any minute but let’s worry about an alleged sexual assault in the UK’

TerriBull Wed 18-May-22 08:22:57

Toxic masculine behaviour is not the preserve of any one country, it happens all over the world and to a greater degree in certain macho cultures where not only are women subjugated but the abhorrent crime of femicide is rife. Mexico for example. I imagine many women who live in places where that sort of danger is constant. feely deeply ashamed of what is happening in their respective countries, but unlike here, they don't have a voice, dissenters, protestors just disappear or are murdered.

Luckygirl3 Wed 18-May-22 08:26:33

He is innocent till proven guilty. But of course it is worrying that an MP is being investigated, especially as we know that the toxic behaviour of some in government is gradually being exposed.

maddyone Wed 18-May-22 08:39:18

MPs are convicted of crimes from all parties. Unfortunately some them have been allowed to retake their seats after conviction. Personally I feel that MPs should not be allowed to sit in parliament. People with criminal convictions, and I’m not thinking of driving convictions, I’m thinking serious crimes such as fraud etc should not be allowed to represent us in parliament.

sodapop Wed 18-May-22 08:49:12

I agree Maddyone serious convictions should preclude anyone becoming or staying an MP.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 18-May-22 08:55:26

sodapop

I agree Maddyone serious convictions should preclude anyone becoming or staying an MP.

Totally agree, there is a MP convicted of planning an acid attack still in the chamber, still drawing their salary and expenses despite having the whip withdrawn.

We have had a MP voting whilst electronically tagged

The speculation is rife all over the internet as to who the man is, one is a front runner apparently, that also is wrong IMO.

Maudi Wed 18-May-22 08:59:47

I hope he isn't named not because he is a Tory MP, but I feel very strongly that people's reputations can be ruined (whether you are a celebrity or an ordinary Joe Bloggs) by false accusations. All parties should remain anonymous until proven guilty.

maddyone Wed 18-May-22 09:03:01

I don’t think it appropriate to speculate on who the person is, as that can lead to totally innocent people being accused and found guilty in the court of public opinion. This case must be investigated properly, although the difficulties of investigating a rape accusation from fifteen years ago are huge and probably never going to be absolutely conclusive.

maddyone Wed 18-May-22 09:06:17

We have had an MP voting whilst electronically tagged.

I would not have been allowed to teach in such circumstances. Many other people would not be allowed to continue with their jobs under such circumstances. I’m afraid I think MPs are given far too much leeway.

Blondiescot Wed 18-May-22 09:08:53

Kim19

Do we know why it has taken so long for this accusation to be made?

Is that relevant? There could be any number of reasons why a case of historic sexual abuse has finally come to light.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 18-May-22 09:21:58

maddyone

^We have had an MP voting whilst electronically tagged.^

I would not have been allowed to teach in such circumstances. Many other people would not be allowed to continue with their jobs under such circumstances. I’m afraid I think MPs are given far too much leeway.

I agree with you yet again maddyone I would go further and say that Councillors both local and District, or anyone in elected office should be dismissed if found guilty of crime.

I would put in a caveat to exclude speeding/parking fines, but would include dangerous/driving whilst under the influence of drink/drugs.

volver Wed 18-May-22 09:26:15

MPs can't be sacked because they are elected officials. The only people that can "sack" them are the electorate who voted for them.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 18-May-22 09:28:57

volver

MPs can't be sacked because they are elected officials. The only people that can "sack" them are the electorate who voted for them.

I am aware of that, surely it is possible to insert a clause at time of selection, pre-election that being found guilty of a crime will lead to immediate deselection?