My H died just under 4 weeks ago
It was his wish and mine, also for me, that we had no funeral.
He was taken to the funeral directors Chapel of rest.
I took best clothes for him, I ordered flowers for the coffin. At 8:30 am last Thursday morning he was taken by hearse to the Crematorium, he was borne in as he would be by the funeral directors staff, he rested for a short while and was then cremated.
The only thing I didnt do was tell the family the date and time, they were happy with all this.
I got his ashes back yesterday and they are awaiting mine to join them then they will be mixed and scattered together.
I will say this is not a much cheaper option, it cost £2,700 but of course there was no wake to pay for.
I did everything for my H while he was alive, I didnt need telling where he was born, what job he did, I knew all that and everyone he loved and who loved him said their goodbyes in his last few days.