I make a distinction between erotica and pornography. The former I take to mean the depiction of sexual acts between consenting adults. The latter would cover all depiction of sexual acts that involve an element of coercion, or where the participants are under age.
This would mean that something I would consider erotic might well offend some people because they do not approve of that particular activity (sado-masochism, for example).
I have to say that I find all descriptions of sex to be boring, unless they are necessary to illuminate somebody's character or circumstances, but I would not try to stop anybody else reading/watching it.
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