I'm in a new relationship after my 2nd marriage finally broke down over a year ago, after many unhappy years.
My adult children (who are either married with their own children, on the other side of the world or mature students) are very wary of me having this new relationship. They are giving lots of advice and opinions, varying from "you need to be able to be happy living on your own before you start a new relationship" to "it's all very quick - how do you know him/trust him/know he's not an axe murderer?" and "what is he after?".
1. I have lived on my own for over a year and I'm fine with it - I wasn't aware there was some kind of test of singleness to be passed
2. His friends think he's a great guy too - everyone else seems to be very happy that we are together and he's not an axe murderer
3. I have nothing material to have taken away, so I'd like to know too!
Has anyone else dealt with this and if so how? It's making me very defensive, stressed and sad. I know they are mainly coming from a place of love, but I'm finding it very hard to manage.
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