Hi I haven't used the forum before but have been reading for some time.
My 4 year relationship is coming to an end. I am heartbroken even though it's probably the right thing.
I have an adult daughter who is married with a 5 year old. My soon to be ex and the little one get on like a house on fire - he's basically grandad without being called so. Every time I think about what's going to happen I get very upset. My GS will miss my ex but I'm not sure how realistic it is for them to continue a relationship- I would need to be involved and that would be very painful.
Also my housing situation is difficult- we rent a flat off his friend- ex lived here before I moved in - so I have nowhere to go & no money. What a stupid situation to have got myself in to.
We have a holiday booked in 3 weeks & we are saying we are still going. Daughter etc are coming too & I just want to have a nice time but I am so sad and hurt. How likely is it that we will?
I know no one will have an answer (unless some one has a flat to rent but I needed to be able to say how I'm feeling.
How much do you spend on yourself?