We’re having a difficult time just now, and have heard both of the above sayings often ( and indeed, I’ve said both of them many times!)
However, yesterday, friends turned up unannounced to allow me to have a wander out with my friend while her husband spent time with the Bodach, who is becoming increasingly confused. It just made me think, the gift of free time, rather than time needed for appointments etc, is worth its weight in gold.
Bought the wrong Hot Cross Buns 😩