Hi, I have beem married for nearly 40years. The last few years have been difficult and although we go through the motions of living day to day I am not happy and I dont think he is. My husband retired and things have got worse. I know it is my fault as I resent the fact he no longer has to work and has a fabulous pension while I am still working and have only my state pension which I have to wait a further 5 years gor (thanks government) to look forward to. We have a home abroad and go a few times a year, I usually pay for flights, but we still just live same life there albeit it in a beautiful place. Anyway, after yet another, argument that came from nowhere, I have decided to see a divorce solicitor as I do not want to spend the rest of my life with this man. I wanted to ask any of you who have taken this step late in life (60's) what are the best questions to ask during my first free appointment? I have no money apart from my income and my share of our house and holiday home, which in last argument he told me I was entitled to nothing. It started because I didnt hear what he said so asked him to repeat, he got funny and belittling, I raised my voice and was accused yet again of "always bloody arguing". Im afraid of starting again, and as said have no money, but have decided I dont want to stay with this man and no way would I want to care for him if needed as we get older (hes proved he wouldnt care for me). Although I worry about the children they are both settled and once I know what Im doing I will tell them. Sorry for rambling but now I've finally decided to see someone it is quite daunting. TIA
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