My mother is 89 and has a gentleman friend of 94 who lives in the same street. They visit each other every day and haven't stopped during lockdown. I have tried to tell both of them they shouldn't be visiting and feel mean saying that due to their ages and no family visiting like myself. But I know they should be staying apart. They both tell me they are well and not having contact with anyone else and mum's friend of 94 tells me my mum cheers his day up. And visa versus. They are both fed up (like everyone else) that they can't go to church, their little coffee mornings, W.I. men's groups etc and I fully understand but feel they are breaking the rules and don't like to push any harder than I do.
Comments please would be appreciated. What would you do if this was your mum and friend? Thanks.
Is it me or am I getting mixed messages