I really need to part with my husband for his sake and mine. I’m so unhappy and finding I can’t hide it anymore. I know this lockdown situation hasn’t helped but prior to that we’d made some bad decisions and had a lot of bad things happen and the stress we’ve been through for the last ten years or so has taken its toll. If only it were just that though. We’ve been together 46 years but if I’m honest have been co dependant. We both had difficult childhoods and escaped very dysfunctional families when we married at 19/21. I’ve held it together for our daughters but I’m feeling more and more that I can’t do it anymore. Problem is he’s a good honest hardworking man but something has died in me.I guess I’ve told myself he’s a good honest man with no pretensions and always tried to think the best of him. Trouble is there is no intellectual stimulus for me. I feel I’ve grown but he hasn’t. I hope I don’t sound too bad saying that but it is the truth. It feels incredibly lonely. Also, he is very lazy minded and very unthoughful with little things like Xmas, birthdays and in bed. I think he is wihat you’d call a taker whilst I’m definitely a giver. He actually doesn’t know after all these years what my favourite anything is ?♀️
We can’t afford to buy individual homes so I wondered if anyone has made it work living seoarately In the same home ?
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