Hi, not quite sure how to say this but I could do with some advice. I'm a 62yr old woman, fairly attractive or so I'm told. My oh has had problems in the bedroom for over 15 years now and 6 yrs ago became unable to walk beyond 5 paces and has other medical issues. I'm his sole carer and although I love him dearly I'm no longer in love with him and haven't found him attractive for many years. My daughters have said that I'm not living just existing and I should do something about it. I really miss intimacy and without my girls and their children I would never receive any physical affection. My oh tells me often that he loves me but doesn't hug or kiss me anymore, we now sleep in separate bedrooms as he is a very noisy sleeper. My quandary is - do I try to find a friend with benefits, I'm not looking for a relationship I don't think, and if I ever managed to pluck up the courage to go looking how on earth would I go about it. I don't want to hurt my oh but I'm not sure I can go on like this.
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