Gingster, I really do understand your point and a small part if me agrees with you. However , if a relative of yours felt this way would you feel the same ? Trans issues are prevalent just now and must be taken seriously. I know it will take a long time but it really isn't anything new. Homosexuality, even today carries stigma but thankfully we are getting there! Trans issues are a long way behind, but will eventually become understood. I feel that if this child is non binary they would be devastated if made to wear what they consider inappropriate clothing , just as I would if I had to dress as a man at a family wedding. This child is not asking too much. What would be great cause for concern
would be if the child had these feelings , was withdrawing from family occasions , depressed and having dark thoughts - and I am sure no one wants that! This issue is very real to this child and can not be overlooked or disregarded. The priority of this serious and significant day is the marriage of two people who are committing to spending their lives together, that is what matters , not the relativity small issue if what someone wears! I apologize if my post sounds harsh but I do have strong views on this .