So much going on at the moment but the biggest thing is wanting to live closer to children and grandchildren (who wish I would make a move as they live in our home village). Problem is husband doesn’t want to, however he rarely takes part in grandchild care and I regularly do on my own each week driving over an hour to get to them sometimes having to stay over and then driving all the way back ( in terrible weather in winter). My health isn’t so good lately so looking after a 12 month old is challenging and sorting out a 5 and 8 year old after school etc. Problem is he’s a drinker so I have to judge when to broach the subject. I would dearly love the balance of my life to have children and grandchildren drop by whenever and resurrect friends I used to have there as we previously lived there for 25 years. He is now renegading on discussions re moving and tbh I’ve had enough sitting here on my own whilst running myself ragged up and down (which spoils the experience really). We had a real humdinger tonight about it and feel quite sad after all this time. I feel am not living the life I would like and need. I think he thinks no one can see what he gets up to here. Married too long to give it up ? Too long a post I know but has anyone else gone through this. Is it a later life thing ?
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