I think being a young mother of just 20 when I had my daughter , my daughter is now 48 and think I found those early years as a young mum wonderful and difficult, I think when I feel upset it's because I think I am being judged as a bad mother. In reality I know like most of us, I did the best I could with what I knew.
I think sometimes our children, especially daughters, want to prove what good mothers they are. I know that I always wanted to do a better job than I thought mine had. In truth my mum also did the best she could with what she knew.
They don't really care do they
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.