My girlfriend, two years before becoming my wife made my 21st Special. Since then I have steered away from celebrating my birthdays prefering to concentrate on my partners birthdays instead.
Sadly the 50th birthday surprise I had in store for my recent ex, a trip to Rome, is not to be so perhaps I will concentrate my efforts on childrens and grandchildrens milestones unless of course miracles do happen but at 64 I will not be holding my breath. Seeing grandaughters little faces light up are priceless moments so I lookforward to them.
I do notice that 30, 40 and 50 appear to be celebrated far more frequently in this day and age, perhaps it is marketing pressure similar to all the other numerous days that seem to be constantly advertised and yes I do believe that 30 is the new 21 however I never did agree with the 18th.
Last weekend, in Rutland, the first statue in Britain of the late Elizabeth II was unveiled.