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Close the door and give me just one minute with this 'man'.

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Marelli Wed 08-May-13 13:50:49

While I was at a village Community Police and Council meeting last night, my daughter was being attacked as she walked home from a self-help group with her friend. She was shot at close range by a BB (?) gun at least 5 times, in her thighs and lower back, as she turned away to protect herself. Apparently a BB gun is a gas-propelled pellet gun. The perpetrator wore a balaclava and demanded their bags. DD told him that they had no money on them and he just shot her. Just like that. Her friend was uninjured and was able to dial 999 as the attacker ran off, and when the police and ambulance arrived she was able to give what description she could, to them.
DD is in hospital, on an anti-biotic drip as the pellets could have been infected by his hands as he loaded the gun. 3 of the pellets will need to remain in her thighs as they are too deep to remove.
My DD has already had to deal with so much emotional stuff over the years, and just when she was attempting to get her life back on track by going to her self-help group this b.....d comes along and does this.
So....I really don't think I'm being unreasonable to want to have a private minute alone with him. One minute would be all I'd need. angry

whenim64 Fri 10-May-13 15:47:50

....similar!

whenim64 Fri 10-May-13 15:47:08

2 to 4 years prison sentence for that sort of offence in England, Marelli. Don't know about Scotland, but probably simiar.

Marelli Fri 10-May-13 15:41:42

Thank you for that, when. I've told my son that and DH. (It's a bit of a comfort in an odd way).

whenim64 Fri 10-May-13 13:13:43

Marelli if he fired deliberately, intending to harm your daughter, he should be charged with Section 18 Grievous Bodily harm/Wounding with Intent. If he can prove he didn't intend to harm her (how on earth he'd do that when he fired several pellets into her, I can't imagine), it's Section 20 Wounding. He could also be charged with Aggravated Attempted Robbery. All indictable offences that go to the Crown Court, and attract a prison sentence.

I hope you've both had a better night's sleep smile

Marelli Fri 10-May-13 12:59:31

He was to be in court this morning. Haven't heard anything on the news as yet, but do hope he's remanded in custody. So far his only charge is attempted robbery but I should imagine that other charges will be added (?)
The police have been really good. The Community Policewoman phoned me yesterday offering support and the Police Safety Officer phoned this morning offering a line of support for me to give DD. Describing how Victim Support would help her through the ensuing court case.
Thank you all again. flowers

Sel Thu 09-May-13 23:40:48

marelli this chills the blood. Absolutely awful for you both and unbelievable that someone could just do this. These BB guns should be banned. I hope this guy is dealt with severely and you and your daughter can manage to put this behind you in time flowers to you both.

Oldgreymare Thu 09-May-13 22:49:13

What a relief Marelli, now your DD can concentrate on getting well. Hugs to you both.

YaYaJen Thu 09-May-13 20:44:48

What a terrible attack, hope your daughter recovers physically and mentally and of course that the b@stard that did it is caught and dealt with....have to add that my DD was once attacked and I honestly wanted to physically retaliate, one time in my life I literally shook with anger but I knew that if I did I would have probably ended up in prison and my daughter parentless....

positivepam Thu 09-May-13 20:29:54

Marelli My sincere best wishes to you and your DD. I hope she continues to heal both physically and mentally and that justice is done. flowers flowers

Butty Thu 09-May-13 20:08:41

marelli xx Take care.

LizG Thu 09-May-13 19:17:10

That is really good news as is your daughter coming out of hospital. Sending you both (((hugs)))

j08 Thu 09-May-13 18:40:27

Glad they've caught him Marelli. Hope justice is done.

nanaej Thu 09-May-13 18:13:04

marelli how appalling.

Glad your daughter is healing and hope the fact the police have the person in custody will also reassure her. flowers for you all.

gillybob Thu 09-May-13 18:00:58

I am so pleased to hear they have caught him Marelli what a relief. Lets see what happens when he goes to court .hmm

So glad to hear your daughter is physically on the mend. I do hope she gets some good counselling to help with the mental trauma of it all. Poor girl. flowers

Elegran Thu 09-May-13 17:45:35

That is good, Marelli They did not take long, was he already known to the police?

numberplease Thu 09-May-13 15:47:14

Great news that the so and so has been caught, let`s hope they don`t go soft and let him off with a slap on the wrist.

shysal Thu 09-May-13 15:41:21

Phew! Thank goodness he has been caught. I hope the punishment will be severe. flowers

grannyactivist Thu 09-May-13 15:39:56

Glad they've caught him Marelli, it will help your daughter to process what happened if she knows the perpetrator will be brought to book. Hope she - and you - are not feeling too shaky today. flowers

annodomini Thu 09-May-13 14:42:24

Thank goodness for that, Marelli. Let's hope they confiscate that gun and send him down.

moomin Thu 09-May-13 14:13:31

Hooray Marelli that's great news! Let's hope he gets just what he deserves the bl**der angry - your DD can hopefully start to heal mentally a little faster now he's been caught complete with weapon.

glassortwo Thu 09-May-13 14:07:30

marelli thats is great news, you will all be relieved. Hopefully your DD will be home later. flowers

Notso Thu 09-May-13 14:02:31

Excellent news....rest a bit easier now. flowers

whenim64 Thu 09-May-13 13:53:57

Fantastic news, Marelli. I hope he is dealt with throughly, and you and your daughter can feel some sense of relief now. flowers

Ana Thu 09-May-13 13:42:12

Thank goodness they've got him, Marelli! Hope your DD recovers well - you both deserve some TLC after such a horrible experience. flowers

Marelli Thu 09-May-13 13:39:18

They've caught him and also have found the weapon. He's 19-years-old and will appear in court tomorrow.
DD still in hospital on anti-biotic drip but should released sometime today.
Thank you all so much for your posts. it really does mean a lot. flowers