Yes, galen, that image of a PILE of pancakes was my idea of heaven. My mum, poor soul, could hardly make them fast enough for five of us re-joining the 'queue' for the next one. It seems she never thought of making piles and keeping them hot in the oven. Hey ho.
The Pakistanis who ran the Paki shop near where I used to live called it The Paki Shop. It was like those old-fashioned corner shops only more so because the spices came in large packets with their Urdu names still on them. They also sold bits for cars.
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(116 Posts)There has been a considerable fuss in the US recently about a celebrity caterer, Paula Deene, who has been accused of using the 'n' word. She's a 66 year old Southerner and has admitted she did use the word in the past but says she wouldn't use it now. I came across the word recently in a novel written in the 1950s and it gave me a shock. Enid Blyton is being rewritten to get rid of examples of language and attitudes but lots of copies of original editions are still around. I think this is a very tricky question. Do you explain to your DGCs what they will find in the book, wait till they comment or not let them have the book? And should we be censoring books in this way?
The word 'ejaculated' occurs in 'Anne of Green Gables' books. Explain that to a 10 yr-old girl !
Both meanings?
Back to the N word: it comes from the Latin neger meaning black, if I remember rightly. It had been used in an offensive way for so long, that we are dead right in banning its use nowadays. But old texts should never be censored and changed. Perhaps a footnote could be added, if the fact it is in a historical context, or necessary for the story, is not clear.
What I find offensive is the totally unconscious racial manipulation in many American dramas. When the African American character needs a love interest, they almost always pick someone from the same race. It never seems to occur to them that they needn't do this. In fact mixing the races in drama could help improve real life race relations in the long run. But alas, race is clearly a criterion in casting.
From what I've read, race/colour is not a consideration in Britain, unless for some reason it has to be. They just call for auditions and pick the best person, regardless.
Maniac I remember reading "My Friend Flicka" when I was about 10 and asking my Dad what "gelding" was. He ummed and aahed then said "Ask your Mum". So I knew it was something best not mentioned and looked it up in the dictionary.
That reminds me of when I was newly wed, aged 22, and went to the butchers to order a large chicken for Christmas. I could cook, but I'd learned it in Austria as an au pair girl, so i was not familiar with the more specialised words in English cooking.
Anyway, he asked me if I wanted a capon. "What's that?" I asked him.
"A castrated cock" he said.
I was a bit taken aback, but I said "Fine - he didn't have a lot to live for, after all"
That butcher was always friendly to me after that.
like that.
Had trouble with an interpreter today, she turned to us and asked "what is the English for a dick?"
Did she mean penis, private eye or a particularly stupid man? 
Penis!
Until recently I was an Equality and Diversity Professional, and had a hole in my office wall from banging my head on it in frustration, so many people got hung up on language would sneer at E & D for being 'PC' and trot out all the old urban myths as an excuse for saying that E & D was stupid
I have yet to meet a black person offended by black coffee, black boards, or black sheep, a Muslim offended by christmas, or epiletic offended by brainstorming!
If, indeed some idiot thought they were helping equality by saying such stupid things , they should be put behind bars for damaging the credibilty of equality legislation
I was a member of EYTARN for some years , and we never found anyone who had actually sang baa baa green sheep - possibly in Nottingham they had no idea what sheep were? 
I had cause to take an elected member to a standards hearing due to her racist and vile attitudes, and from somewhere , out of my mouth popped the words ' we should all live our lives according to thumper's mother - if you havent got anything nice to say, then don't say nothing at all...'
Regrtably I cannot adhere myself to her high standards !
In Nottingham susie they sang 'baa baa fluffy sheep'. It is over twenty years ago, but some things are hard to forget.
I also remember that when I worked in Sheffield before that, our deputy area manager sent out a memo to every member of staff (pre email) saying that as a white person she wanted to acknowledge her responsibility for the history of racism in Britain, and wanted all the other white members of staff to join her in acknowledging our inherent racist attitudes. She had just been on a race awareness course. Strange times. But it was out of such nonsense that attitudes in general began to change and the significance of language began to be taken seriously.
nightowl - yes, they were strange times. You're spot on though, it was out of such nonsense that attitudes to gender/sexuality/race etc began to change.
If only the current debates about women hating on twitter, child sexual abuse etc will lead to progress in those areas
nightowl - yes, they were strange times. You're spot on though, it was out of such nonsense that attitudes to gender/sexuality/race etc began to change.
If only the current debates about women hating on twitter, child sexual abuse etc will lead to progress in those areas
I hope we're coming out the other side of the nonsense, being generally aware and able to talk about black coffee and black sheep without it being assumed there is racist intent.
In probation, an over-zealous head office bod decided to issue a 'house-style guide to correct language, giving examples of terms to be used in court reports, saying 'we recognise the level of awareness of probation officers, but here is an educative opportunity for the judiciary!' It rambled on and on and became the butt of in-house jokes, including spoof union and chief officer memos. It quietly disappeared, but staff would resurrect it whenever management introduced their latest buzz-words like 'helicopter view' 'running the flag up the pole' 'thinking outside the box' and 'blue sky thinking.'
They must cringe with embarrassment now, but I bet there are more buzz-words being used.
Oh yes, in a certain establishment we used to play cr*p bingo. We had grids made up by a different person before a faculty meeting, and on each card was a list of cliches which we might or might not hear uttered. Examples were:
Higher order skills
BYOT
Data mining
Push the envelope
Diversity (X2) to count
Empowerment
Impact
Stakeholder
And so on. The winner - the first to complete a card, got to compile the next cards and we all chipped in a quid for a bottle to drown our sorrows.
Wonderful, MiceElf! 
Ha ha, MiceElf.
We did something similar in our middle managers' meetings, when a particular chief officer, whose every sentence contained jargon, came to visit. We would have a couple of words each to try and shoehorn in. I remember having 'drilling down' (a David Blunkett favourite) and 'lessons learned.' Made a change from the usual meetings, which were like the Vicar of Dibley! 
oh I have been exhorted to 'drill down' and to 'cascade ideas' to do a 'brown paper exercise'!!
All an attempt to say the same things in new ways!!
We used to call it "Bullsh*t Bingo" Micelf - same principle - great fun!
I am totally ignorant as to why this particular word is offensive, can somebody please explain the derivative of it for me? I know we use the words "Geordie" or "grockle" plus a lot of other words to describe the roots of British people with no problem...............I hope that I am not being insensitive - I just need some education
Probably the connection of the name with the attitude of those who "employed" the black slaves who were called by it, and their treatment of them. It was a term with much more of a note of abuse than Geordies or grockles.
Still don't understand the origin of the word - I understand the slavery aspect but where does the word originate from? Wonder if Google will tell me!
It is quite a simple origin - from the latin word for "black", as the French word "noir" also did. Like many words it started as a factual description (of people whose skin was a lot darker than people of European ancestry) and turned into an insult because in America at that time, those people were slaves doing the heaviest and dirtiest work and by association were the least valued.
So "white trash?" (Wooden spoon)
In the tribunals we have the 'over riding principle!'
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