Quite agree, Jess. We tithe our income and that goes to four different charities - with gift aid - and that's it apart from the occasional dreadful disaster.
I don't put money in buckets - no gift aid possible - and I certainly don't sponsor other people's jollys. That might make me a sour old bat and it does take a bit of nerve to decline nice young people whose parents are known to you but that's the decision I've made.
My fat balls bring all the birds to the yard


