Thanks for kind words. When my son came in, he had been told that why they hadn't gone to the seaside, he said 'Well boys did you have a nice time with Grandma and Grandpa at the seaside today. The 6 year old said 'We didn't go daddy because we were really horrible to Grandpa the other night and it was our punishment' I never used the word punishment, I think they got the message. We are taking them out for the day on Friday this week. See how it goes. I hope they have learned their lesson.
Anger management!!! Help needed.