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am I being unreasonable thinking its too early for decorations

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glammanana Wed 22-Oct-14 15:14:50

ethel I was driving home on Monday evening and turned into a Road not to far away to be greeted by lights twinkling away around the window I thought I was seeing things and could not believe my eyes.
Mine have always gone up for the 15th as thats when is DS1s birthday (we have a few birthdays between 15th-31st) and they come down at the first chance after New Year.

Coolgran65 Wed 22-Oct-14 14:10:54

For me, Christmas gets spoiled by the early appearance of all thing Christmas. My tree goes up sometime after 7 days before 25th and down asap afterwards, maybe three days.
Thus, it remains a novelty while in place.

sunseeker Wed 22-Oct-14 13:07:16

I love Christmas but don't put decorations up until the weekend before. I will start looking for presents around middle of November that way hopefully I will have bought everything but Christmas! I think it must spoil the excitement for small children to have decorations up and Carols being sung too early

Gracesgran Wed 22-Oct-14 13:01:37

Obviously you are not wrong to think it is too early for you but others may like it. I start in January making presents for the next year and by September tend to have a few things around as I am photographing decorations I have made, etc.

I currently have a small tree up, a Santa on the hearth (don't like to dump him on the floor as if he isn't wanted); he's a prototype design, a Sleeps Before Christmas rag doll nightdress case and a rag wreath on a chair waiting to be packed and boxes of decorations also awaiting wrapping.

I love it!

Marmight Wed 22-Oct-14 12:31:07

blush I booked 'Breakfast with Santa' at Dobbies this morning for the 4 visiting GC's. I wanted Christmas Eve, so had to do it the minute booking opened at noon. Going to forget all about C.........s now for at least 5 or 6 weeks (apart from learning my lines for a C........play wink)

henetha Wed 22-Oct-14 12:29:11

Christmas is bad enough at Christmas, without "celebrating" it weeks in advance. You are not being unreasonable at all. I dread the annual over-eat/over-spend/over-socialise fest.
Sorry. Just don't like Christmas.

kittylester Wed 22-Oct-14 12:10:26

JL has had it's C*******s Dept open for a while - somehow I don't mind that as it's so lovely! #conformingtostereotype

Ana Wed 22-Oct-14 12:05:33

Our local M&S had a silvery Christmas tree up when I nipped in last week!

KatyK Wed 22-Oct-14 11:58:34

It's ridiculous. Our local M&S has Christmas presents on sale. Bah humbug..

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 22-Oct-14 11:46:58

Got to make the puds soon though! Comes round so quickly. I start to think about it after Dd's and grandkids school half term. No decs till a week or two before!

kittylester Wed 22-Oct-14 11:41:44

No you are not - we don't think about C*******s until at least after the annual Street Fair which, this year is 13-15 November! We had a tradition of decorating the tree on the day the children broke up for the C*******s holidays and try to stick to a day as close to that as possible!

Hope you are feeling ok Mishap flowers

Mishap Wed 22-Oct-14 11:32:46

No - you are not. I love Xmas but am happy to keep it to the few days.

etheltbags1 Wed 22-Oct-14 11:24:02

I live near a huge housing estate and often walk through as a short cut and I see lots of twinkly lights in the windows. Whats up!
Is it because the shops are starting to sell lights etc now, that people just cant help buying them or are we all to bored with life that we just want to move on to the next bit of excitement that comes along.

One of the saddest things I saw a few years ago was a young housewife who had her tree decorated, stockings filled and presents under the tree all by mid November. I asked her if she was organised for Christmas and she said yes, presents had been bought by October, wrapped and were on display. She had two young children and I wondered what they thought, would they find it hard to believe in father Christmas or were they non believing, would it be hard to contain their curiosity about what was in the parcels so long before the big day. I came to the conclusion that the mother was so bored with life that she just had to do something. Would she be looking for easter eggs in January-probably.

I don't much like Christmas but I will do what I have to for my DGD, tree, decs etc. but it never takes over my life. Are others like me or are you all so organised that its all done by November.